Who will manage money better between husband and wife in marriage? Every family's situation is different, and the handling methods are different. For example, some men are good at managing money, but their wives spend a lot of money, which leads to a lot of unnecessary expenses every month. At this time, the husband and wife reached an understanding that male financial management would be more planned.

But in life, women care more about money, and most men are paid only after earning money. This is also to reassure the wife and balance the status between husband and wife. In fact, it is good for the young couple to care about money. As long as they don't mind each other, it is good to reach an understanding. After all, family harmony is the most important thing, and I am afraid that my mother-in-law likes to intervene, which will lead to intensified contradictions.

Rebecca and Kennan met at work. At first, they just got along as friends. In the evening, they often chat, either about daily chores or about troubles at work. Over time, they also developed feelings for each other. It was not until Valentine's Day that Kennan confessed that they really established their relationship.

Although Kennan looks honest, he is sincere to Rebecca. He often buys her all kinds of gifts and makes some small surprises. After talking for three years, their feelings for each other continued to heat up, so he decided to meet their parents.

Rebecca's parents are very satisfied with Kennan, as long as their daughter likes it. However, when Rebecca went to Kennan's house, she found that her mother-in-law was obviously a difficult person to get along with. As soon as we met, there were continuous "questioning", such as how many people are there in the family, where they work, how much they earn, and whether they plan to develop in Kenan's hometown in the future. But Kennan dare not say a word, which shows the strength of her mother-in-law in the future.

Later, after dinner at home, the future mother-in-law said directly: marry my son, be diligent and wash the dishes first. Although Rebecca was not satisfied, she chose obedience for Kennan's sake. After this meeting, Rebecca obviously felt the strength of her future mother-in-law, and she was not very satisfied with herself, otherwise her attitude would not be like this.

But what followed was Kennan's sudden disconnection. Kennan only sent a message to Yan Wang: I have to deal with some things recently, and I'll contact you when I'm finished. Then, the message didn't return, the phone didn't answer, and the sudden change made Rebecca have a hunch that her future mother-in-law was at work.

Sure enough, less than half a month later, Kennan appeared again. As soon as we met, he looked very happy. He also said: My mother finally agreed to let us be together. I have been doing her ideological work these days, but she still made a small request, that is, our salary should be kept by her after marriage.

When Rebecca heard this, he was unhappy: if she keeps the salary, don't we have to ask her for money if we want to spend it? How unsafe would that be? Kennan continued to persuade: My mother said that she saved money for our own good and would leave us living expenses every month.

Without thinking, Rebecca refused directly: impossible, why should I let others take care of my hard-earned money? Only when I am in my own hands can I feel safe. If your mother still has to take care of you, then find another girlfriend who is willing to pay. I don't agree anyway. In the end, no one would bow their heads, and there was a gap between Rebecca and Kennan, and their feelings were not as sweet as before.

I believe most people don't want their elders to interfere in the economic power after marriage, especially the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only by maintaining mutual respect and equality can we get along without problems, but some mother-in-law don't understand this truth. They always feel that their son's hard-earned money can't be managed by his daughter-in-law, and indirectly treat his daughter-in-law as an outsider, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will naturally intensify.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need a certain sense of distance. As a mother-in-law, even if she is well-intentioned, she can't be self-centered and don't care about her children's feelings. Otherwise there will be conflicts sooner or later. In addition, when a child is married, it means independence. Some things should be let go and let them deal with themselves, not interfere. Only by knowing the proper limits and a sense of distance can families be harmonious.