The quality of a good man, you can love yourself, but more importantly, you are responsible. Maybe not all for myself, but definitely not for any unmarried place that is not worth caring about. Dude, you can indulge once in a while. Only by being worthy of yourself can you be worthy of others. Although men and women are equal, they are different. Dude, you need to be smart and far-sighted. When you meet a woman who deserves to take care of her life and is willing to create everything for you and her future, you must protect her, and it is best not to just take a joking attitude (of course, if she is a virgin) so that you won't feel guilty. The so-called forces are mutual. It is almost a miracle that there is only something that is accepted and taken, but not contributed and paid. Men can be rich, talented, ambitious and naturally affectionate seeds ... of course, some may be useless, but almost all men regard dignity as life! Man, you can have nothing, but you can't have no dignity. Even if you are a worthless person. But remember, no matter what, you are a man with indomitable spirit! Living is worthy of the simple word "person", which is easy to write! Dude, you don't have to have a high degree. But now, in China, you must have at least a high school or college degree. Although you don't have to be absolutely knowledgeable, you should at least know a few great stories. If you are a business elite, you'd better know the family history of several business wizards, and at least know some important historical figures like Kōnosuke Matsushita or Napoleon, the king of Japanese electrical appliances. Because of your excellent performance, I'm not sure when you will give a speech in a company. Know something about the universe and evolution, or the common sense of astronomy and geography that interests you. Don't always have a crush on girls in bars and nightclubs. Their world is not just yours. A healthy, cultured man with good hobbies should know how to control his private life. Of course, occasional indulgence, entertainment and impulsiveness can still be tolerated, but you should remember that it is only occasional! Men should have a proper sense of humor. It can not only prevent silence, but also show personal charm and attract the attention of people you want to attract or don't want to attract at all. Don't always play poker, mahjong and bridge in your spare time, learn a few jokes or humor, even if it is cold humor. Maybe you can use it some other time. Dude, maybe you're not as strong as Schwarzenegger or Allen Delong. You should master at least one or two sports. Seeing clearly means mastering, not making you good at it. Maybe basketball, maybe chess, maybe tennis, volleyball or golf. You can't always be led by your boss or superior leader and relax after work. Look on coldly. Men should know football. Usually, whether you like it or not, football is a man's sport in short. You should also exercise regularly. Don't say that you don't have time and energy and are busy with work. In fact, I can only blame one word: lazy! Life lies in exercise. Moreover, you can strengthen your body, cultivate your temperament and temper your will, so you must exercise. For myself and for men's names. Dude, you need wine. Remember, you need wine. You may not be very good at drinking, but as a man, you must be able to drink. It's drinking, not making you addicted to alcohol. The so-called "drinking to drown your sorrows" is even more worrying. You know that alcohol is harmful to your health, but for some men, alcohol is your loyal friend and never gives up ... moderate drinking is good for your body and mind. Dude, you need cigarettes. Although you know that smoking is harmful to your health, as long as cigarettes don't betray you. It's wonderful to feel at your fingertips. The metal lighter in your hand can make a man who is not handsome and elegant suddenly charming and personable, especially in bars or private clubs. This lighter may be Zippo or Du Peng ... You don't have to have a luxury car, but if you smoke, a lighter is very important! Dude, you don't have to say too much. But remember to say it when you should, and don't say it casually when you shouldn't. When you should say something, you must say something important and constructive. This period of time may be a good opportunity for you to get a promotion and win someone's favor. Although you may not be reserved, although you may not like to keep your mouth shut, sometimes you must learn to keep your mouth shut. Of course, only if you are smart enough. Dude, you should have a car. Of course, living in a city is an indispensable means of transportation. Your car is not necessarily a Mercedes-Benz BMW, but at least it should be a vehicle with excellent performance and reliable quality. If you have a car, you should not only know how to drive, but also know how to simply maintain it. Nobody likes a car to break down during a trip. If there is no towing company near the anchor, it happens that your mobile phone has no signal and no power ... Men, if they have a car, they should love it as their own, and try to integrate people and cars as much as possible, regardless of whether the car is carrying the girl you like. It doesn't have to take a long time, but when driving, you must ensure the safety of everyone in the car. Dude, you may be under a lot of pressure at work. Maybe you live by looking at the faces of your boss and superiors every day. You said you had had enough, but you didn't say it. You're cursing, boss. Go to hell. However, the next day, you showed your boss the report that you made by staying up late, although he might not be satisfied ... this is a real man. Man, you should be responsible for everything around you that concerns you. Men and women, old people and children. Whether it's your family, your superiors or leaders, or even your own car, stereo or a set of fishing tools ... men, you must stand on your own feet. Never be a man who is completely dependent on others, especially a woman who is not a relative. I mean everything. In this way, you will undoubtedly never know the true meaning and satisfaction of being a real man! Dude, you should know how to plan ahead. You may not be very good at making money, but you must learn to manage money. You should set aside at least part of it as an investment. You may not be an expert in financial management, but don't be fooled easily. Whether it is stocks, futures or foreign currency. At least there is an extra investment, even if it's just an unexpected huge property insurance or an old house ... man, you have to stick to it. When you decide to enter the married life, you should have enough courage to stick to it. You don't have to be a perfect husband, but you must try to be a perfect father. The long road to marriage is doomed to be happy, lost, boring and boring. Although it may not be your intention to participate in the program occasionally, it can also relieve your so-called stress, but you should remember that there is still a ruined wife waiting for you at home before marriage. Single-mindedness should be worthy of the title of the mainstay of your society, the economic pillar of your family and the head of your family. Man, you need patience, but also a wise and determined character. When your children bring you endless troubles, you must always be wise and slowly experience your father's fun with a peaceful heart. You should be a role model for children, because your every move and even some bad habits will have more or less influence on children, whether it is good or bad, so you must be a good example! Man, you are a natural destroyer, you are a natural king, you are unwilling to be lonely, you want to control everything, but you are not the only man. Man, you need a legal and reasonable heterosexual partner. Maybe you'd better have more than one ideal sexual partner, but at present, under monogamy in China, it is particularly important to choose a spouse. Your wife may not be beautiful enough or virtuous enough, but she must know how to lead an honest and clean life, be reasonable and understand the overall situation. Nobody wants to be busy outside. There is a fire in the backyard. Although you can keep the red flag at home and the colorful flags fluttering outside, you should learn to control your initial impulse. After all, you have grown up, not that bohemian silly boy. Maybe you are still childlike, but it definitely doesn't mean that you can always be childish and willful. If you really want to cheat, you are at least more than 7% sure that your wife will not "crash and burn" with you or let things get out of control. You already have a home, not a bondage, but a permanent responsibility, usually until death. Dude, you need to keep your balance. There must also be the boldness of vision that Mount Tai collapses in front without changing color and the measure that the prime minister can punt in his stomach. Don't haggle over everything, just limit yourself to some harmless things. Some things must be affordable, and some things must learn to let go. For example, don't quarrel with the unreasonable opposite sex, don't make trouble unreasonably, and don't scold the street rudely like those bitches. Dude, you can be more generous. Don't be a poor tool like an "iron rooster" who can only make money. (Of course, the premise is that you can make money. ) It's just icing on the cake for the success of your career. You should remember to give back to the society and take part in one more charity activity. Men also need brothers and one or two friends of the opposite sex. Whether it is beauty or blue. You should also remember to walk with your brothers and colleagues if nothing happens, and treat them if nothing happens. Sometimes a brother is more reliable than a wife. It's best not to bring mistresses. Spending extra money on necessary and reasonable emotional investment, etc., is more cruel and introverted than spending money on mistresses to raise a "female" man like a "parasite". When your love is in crisis, you can try your best to save it, but you should know how to let go at the right time. If it can't be saved, you can let her fly. You can have emotions, but you can't be seen by others. It is not a crime for a man to cry. You can always hold back from crying. But when you can't stand it anymore, it's not a crime for a man to cry! -Andy is crying, so can you. But you can't always cry. The so-called man doesn't flick when he has tears, but he hasn't reached the sad place yet. Men, no matter how uncomfortable you are the day before, even if it is something that almost makes you collapse, you should raise your smiling face the next day. You should go all out to welcome the new day. Even if you are extremely unwilling to accept it. But just because you are a man, you must accept the reality. When you are closing a painful door, God will open a door to happiness for you at the same time. If you created this door yourself, you can open it as long as you want!